I have always been entrepreneurial. I remember being in the sixth grade and wanting to go to the movies with my friends, but my parents didn't have the money. "Everybody's going!" I said in frustration, but our family just couldn't swing the cost.
I quickly paced around my house and noticed some floral wreaths that someone had made for my mom. "These are nice!" I took them out of the house and went door to door selling them until I'd made enough money to go to the movies. Of course, my mom was not pleased, but I had a great time and had extra to buy popcorn and soda. From that day forward, I never let money — or a lack of it — get in my way.
Fast-forward to the career I had for twelve years, starting fresh out of school: I was a philanthropic adviser, helping high-net-worth individuals give their money to impactful projects at universities and colleges. In this field, I was often the only woman of color in the room. I became numb to not seeing other women who looked like me. I accepted the lack of diversity and thought it must be normal. I felt like Tiffany Haddish; maybe I was the last black unicorn!
Then, one day, it hit me like a ton of bricks. It was around the time Lean In came out. A group of colleagues (white women) formed a Lean In group, and I was never invited to it. At that point, I realized that career development was not created equal. And that "women" didn't always mean women of color.
It made me tired. I was tired of not seeing women of color in executive roles and tired of white women being the only face of career development. Somehow, we had become invisible, not even hidden figures! At the time, the go-to career platforms were Levo, the Muse, and others, and white women had founded them. They were preaching to "all women," and as we know, equality in the workplace is not created equal. If I hear one more white woman tell me how to negotiate my salary or play the game, I am going to scream!
Don't get me wrong, I received a lot of fantastic career advice from these platforms, but women of color face unique challenges. For starters, the wage gap. The often quoted 77 cents on a dollar for women does not include women of color: Black women make 63 cents, and Latinas make 54 cents. Second, we hold fewer board seats and senior management positions than white women do, and it's just hard to see yourself as a leader when the women representing you don't share your experiences. I can take the advice of any successful woman, but when I see another black woman or brown woman who has been successful telling me I can do it, it means I can do it too, just like they did. White women will never be called "the angry black woman," or told their natural hair is not "appropriate" for a conservative workplace, nor will be they be able to address these biases.
We have all heard the quote "Create something you wish existed." I decided to create a career platform built by women of color for women of color. We need tools that help us prepare for our seat at the table. I was fortunate enough to have a seat, and I wanted to help other women who looked like me through education, community, and access. In my opinion, access is the missing ingredient to greatness, so I created the Memo.